In December, i attended a wedding on behalf of my parents. They were away for umrah and asked me and my bro to attend the wedding. Well, i was kinda excited at first as it is a wedding of this 'someone'.
So when the day comes, we went to the wedding. They served us 5 course chinese Meal. Yeah something you dont usually get at weddings. But i pity the Datin next to me as she's not into chinese food. But the dessert was good.
So i posted a few photo's of the bride and groom on instagram with her wedding hashtag and all. Okay, you see, i love to put photos of any bunga telur i get at a wedding and i have a follower on intagram whom likes to comment about it. We dont kutuk but simply saying 'wow, cantik' or 'wow, hadiah paling bergaya' and stuff.
So i uploaded the photos i took during her wedding, and later a photo of the bunga telur.
A few months later, while browsing my instagram, i saw the exact photo on her instagram. I was surprised, but i thought it was not mine. But then i saw my kitchen window in the reflection and also the scratch i have on the kitchen counter. OH my god!! It's my photo !!!! I tagged the bride on my photo, even commented on her photo, It took me a few hours, to post it on my IG and some of my friends were having the same opinion as mine. One of my friend confronted her and later i went into the picture. We were badly bashed by the bride's follower. Then they even make fun of us by posting a few other post. Some of the follower claimed that i am tak sedar diri that i dah pergi melantak kat kenduri tu, dapat coklat mahal, and then the bride cnnot use the photo. I say, Memang lah, sebab it's my photo!! Then Some other claimed that the photo belongs to the bride because its her bunga telur. I say , sejak bila pulak ada rules mcm tu?
All i am saying is, confirmkan la dulu gambar tu ambik dari mana (which is still a mystery that the bride pun tak tahu), i mean, if its from your instagram wedding hashtag pun, check la siapa user nya. A simple credit would be nice rather than bashing and memalukan orang. There are rules and formality for this kind of things. I know some people were telling me to let go, and it is not worth my time. But it kills me to see this kind of things. Nak kata tak educated, masuk uni, google ada, guna laa.
Yeah i did confront her as well and her bestfren. But no sorry no nothing after all the bashing. The bride replied to me but still she made it as though she donno anything and her intention was to eat the choc. Well let me get that straight, i dun care if u wanna eat chocs but you dont simply use people's photo. And when somebody tegur and say the photo belongs to someone else, say sorry or do some investigation la about it. Not just simply play 'i dunno' and let your followers bash me. I have to admit, i am upset about it. Some of her followers even asked me why i did such things this to their idol. I was like 'what????' I am the one to be blame now? Serious sedih kot!
But then, i did let it go until today. I decided to write about this in my blog. From the moment I let it go , keeping quiet during the incident, i have learned and seen a lot of things. Valuable things and life lessons. I redha dgn apa yang terjadi. Nobody says sorry, nobody contacted me. Fine i redha. ALLAH maha adil.
Someone brought the matter up again and i accidentally come accros it on her sister's IG a few weeks ago and it brought back bad memories to me. I was kinda defending myself when a follower was talking bad about me. She claimed i am 'makcik yang meroyan pasal bunga telur tu'
But its okay. I dont wanna start more drama. As i've said, i redha dgn apa yang terjadi.
I have nothing to say to the bride or anyone anymore. Plus, anything that i have to say or convince her wont make me look good, i will still be in the wrong. I am not a popular person that have so many followers to back me up even when i am in the wrong. I am happy with my life and i hope you are happy with your life too.
Disclaimer : all photos in this entry are mine and taken from my instagram snapshots. ( hahahahaha siap bubuh disclaimer okay!!!)
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